A dear old friend said something yesterday that gave me pause. ‘Magic don’t work if you don’t believe in it.’ And I thought about it, and felt about it, and I think and feel she’s right.
If you shut your eyes and close your ears and lock away your hopes and dreams behind a mile-high wall, then, sure as eggs is eggs, ain’t nothing magical going to happen, is it? Just as you won’t win the Lottery if you don’t buy a ticket, you’ve got to meet magic halfway. You’ve got to give Fate a chance.
Maybe there is no real magic, maybe there are no elves and dragons, maybe there are no fairies at the end of the garden or gold at the end of the rainbow, maybe there are no fairytale princes or genies in bottles granting wishes or happy ever afters but, hey, so what if there aren't? Let’s live as if there were, because…well, maybe because life is simply nicer than way. And who knows?
Delusion? Maybe. Bonkers New Age claptrap? Quite possibly. But hey, who gives a fuck? J
If you baulk at that, then maybe change the words. Spell it differently. Instead of ‘magic’ say ‘good things’, say ‘chance’, say ‘serendipity’, say whatever the hell you like but just open up, allow a glimmer of hope in for hope's sake.
Sometimes you have to believe in order to let the magic happen, to give it a toehold, to let it breathe. I’ve told you already that there was a firepit at the Pause, on the top of the sun/moon/starlit hill, within the magic circle – and we sat around it at night and talked, and meditated, and watched the stars and all sorts. And it was lovely. But…
‘I almost brought my guitar,’ said Sarah.
And we all sighed. Music…that was what was missing. Because there is nothing more magical than the combination of fire and music.
Remember this magical fire song?
Lynn said that her chap Dave was a musician, and she said, ‘Shall I get him to come and play for us?’
We looked at her in amazement. They live in Whitstable, on the East coast, and we were in Cornwall, right down in the far West, at the other end of the country.
‘But he’s 300 miles away,’ someone said.
‘So?’ She smiled and turned to her phone.
She whistled and he came. Just like that. He just got in his van and drove, not quite all night but for a heck of a long time, just to come down for an evening to play for us around the fire. Just? The power of Love, huh? And it was so so magical, lounging around the fire, sipping wine, nibbling on those healthy truffles of Amy’s, and passing round Dave’s list of songs and shouting out numbers, like a Chinese menu.
And, funny thing…there had been a lot of tears during our five days at The Pause, but I hadn’t cried once. Much as I will sob in private, I never let my defences down in public. But when he started playing, I couldn’t help myself. Tears welled up and I started gulping a bit. And it was, really, deeply embarrassing because it was that old bloody standard, The Sound of Silence, the bane of my school assemblies. How many times had I strummed it out on stage? So clichéd. But it just whacked me in the solar plexus and then whammied me in the heart. And, yeah, I cried. And was that magic? Yup.
Anyhow, you can book Dave for your own firepit, should you wish. I hear he’s also pretty good at clubs and parties and anything really. Cos he's one absolutely lovely guy. No bullshit. Just magic. http://www.davela.co.uk